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Started by TheVoiceOfReason on Aug 29, 2019 9:51:49 PM
Do YOU “make room” for asexuals at YOUR kink & sex parties?

If you curate sex and kink parties, you are bound to have asexuals of most flavors in attendance. If you attend kink and sex parties, you’re bound to meet asexual folks who might want to play. Despite what some popular sex educators may say about asexual inclusion at these events, I’m here to tell you that we are here, we exist, and some of us like sex and kink parties. Some of us like sex and kink a lot, and should have access to these spaces. If you hold space for diverse expressions of kink and sexuality, please make space for aces at your events. We are more than our attractions. We are dynamic, fluid, and self-aware people, too. Thank you for consideration!

https://medium.com/@chrissyholman/the-case-for-making-space-for-ace-asexuals-at-your-sex-and-kink-parties-a88628167ac5

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foghorn - 29 Aug 2019 21:56:56 (#1 of 42)

Leave your number.

popstar7 - 29 Aug 2019 21:58:40 (#2 of 42)

GPWM

TheVoiceOfReason - 29 Aug 2019 21:59:55 (#3 of 42)

HOW CAN YOU BE AN ASEXUAL IF YOU “LIKE SEX AND KINK A LOT”?!?!?!

I mean, is it me?

Verdigris - 29 Aug 2019 22:00:40 (#4 of 42)

Not just me then.

YorenInTheNorth - 29 Aug 2019 22:04:51 (#5 of 42)

#3

Not just you.

Arjuna - 29 Aug 2019 22:06:49 (#6 of 42)

reported for aceophobia

TheVoiceOfReason - 29 Aug 2019 22:09:20 (#7 of 42)

I think I’m an AERG,* Arjuna.

Ace Exclusionary Radical Gay

TheVoiceOfReason - 29 Aug 2019 22:10:37 (#8 of 42)

Although I did love ”You don’t necessarily need to be attracted to people to engage in and enjoy sexual activity”.

TheGays discovered that centuries ago!

Arjuna - 29 Aug 2019 22:13:57 (#9 of 42)

aren't there a lot of 'spaces' where people aren't having sex?

frantastic - 29 Aug 2019 22:14:50 (#10 of 42)

Should I invite some deaf people to my next musical soirée?

Yersinia - 29 Aug 2019 22:16:02 (#11 of 42)

Probably best.

Arjuna - 29 Aug 2019 22:18:07 (#12 of 42)

she has written an angry response to a reddit thread discussing her article, perhaps we'll be next

Rendered - 29 Aug 2019 22:27:08 (#13 of 42)

Americans are insane no. 753324689987 in a continuing series.

foghorn - 29 Aug 2019 22:28:52 (#14 of 42)

What about people who identify as Elvis. Or clowns. Can they come to everyones sex parties?

Arjuna - 29 Aug 2019 22:33:07 (#15 of 42)

if you haven't had a threesome with a clown and an Elvis impersonator, you haven't lived

foghorn - 29 Aug 2019 22:33:50 (#16 of 42)

PM me, Arj.

TheVoiceOfReason - 29 Aug 2019 22:33:57 (#17 of 42)

#12: https://medium.com/@chrissyholman/last-night-i-witnessed-a-giant-reddit-thread-about-a501bf9efda0

Rendered - 29 Aug 2019 22:34:37 (#18 of 42)

The next time I see my sex party curator friend I'll have to ask him about his ACE-inclusive policy.

TheVoiceOfReason - 29 Aug 2019 22:35:27 (#19 of 42)

https://www.reddit.com/r/stupidpol/comments/cmf3yc
/sounds_like_some_asexuals_arent_well_asexual/

JennyRad - 29 Aug 2019 22:36:35 (#20 of 42)

Should I invite some deaf people to my next musical soirée?



Ironically given what I assume you were intending to do, this has put the question in a new light for me.

Evelyn Glennie exists. Maybe, by analogy, it's reasonable for ace people to want to go to orgies. I don't understand it, but I also don't understand wanting to go to orgies, so I don't think it's my understanding of asexuality that's the problem.

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